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Cock Blocking Friends

karnythia:

notesonascandal:

mrgq:

Why? 

Why must you be in the vicinity of girls that obviously want us?

Like, I really don’t get it. If they WANT it, then what’s the problem? It’s consensual. I’d never force a chick to have sex with me. They’re grown women they can make their own decisions they don’t need mommy telling them right from wrong. 

But seriously question girls: 

If your friend is showing interest to another guy and she’s drunk, tipsy whatever would you want to “protect them”, or just let them do them?

One of the most SERIOUS rules I have w/my Good Girlfriends has always been “NEVER do you allow her to go fuck anybody while drunk”. That is never a decision that should be made under the influence of anything. Yes, you ALWAYS protect your girls in situations like that. She can’t properly consent while under the influence. And as a mother to a teenage son now, when the time comes that he is in “party” situations to NEVER, EVER have sex or even touch a young woman who is obviously drunk or otherwise altered, whether she “wants” it or not. She can’t consent. She’s drunk. That means “NO”. Don’t violate her and don’t set yourself up for problems later on. DO NOT TOUCH HER. That’s what I’m teaching MY SON. 

I’m the beer goggles police for my male & female friends. I have yet to regret it & neither do they because drunk judgment is impaired judgment & quite frankly I wouldn’t want anyone to let me go off with a stranger while I’m not in my right mind.

I’ve noticed a lot of guys don’t seem to get the “Don’t go to bed with someone while drunk.” rule and for a while I figured it was just because if a guy gets so drunk he can’t consent he usually can’t perform either so it never occurs to them how terrible this is.

It just now occurred to me, though. They don’t get pregnant. For them, waking up next to an undesirable person after they’ve been not so drunk they couldn’t get into but too drunk to exercise the “No” thing properly is just that… waking up next to an undesireable person.

A woman might wake up pregnant after being tipsy and not saying no. After not having the presence of mind to insist on a condom, or use her birth control.

So yeah, a good friend prevents that, and you guys need to learn to fucking respect that.